Saturday, March 1, 2008

Importance of family role models

I still trying to adjust to the fact that my mother ( mami as I call her ) is not physically here. My mother, Noemi was always a role model for me and for numerous generations of students and professionals. Through her example, I learned to challenge my abilities and to reach for higher professional goals.

I am an strong believer in the importance of positive role in forming the personality of children and even the effect of role models in our adult years.

She was an inspiration for my book which I hope will encourage young women to define success in their own terms, to plan for their future and expand their horizons.

Role models leave a legacy by inspiring others to become role models and that is what she did. Each story from the book provides an inspiration to young women to develop their potential and take advantage of opportunities without setting limits to their success.

I was fortunate to have strong positive role models in my family and I would like to continue the legacy.

Thursday, February 7, 2008

More Progress and Accomplishments

I have news for you. The book is completed. Well at least the first version. I have shared the book with several executive women and look forward to hear their feedback.

However the reason I am writing today is to talk about one successful woman who has been a role model for many women and men. This woman is Noemi Perez Valdes - my mother who was an inspiration and a main contributor to my book.

My mother passed away few hours ago. It breaks my heart that I can just take an airplane and flight home to see her sweet face for the last time. Those of you who have lost their mothers know how difficult this moment is.

In 2003, I wrote my first poem. This poem was dedicated to my mother. I have wrote several other poems, but this poem is by far the best. I thought the best tribute to her is to post the poem in this blog.

Mami este poema es para ti. Tu Hija.

Aquellos Ojos Verdes

Aquellos ojos verdes de belleza impecable,
aquellos ojos verdes de amor y pasión
que llenos de sonrisa ofrecían alegría
aquellos ojos verdes nacieron del dolor.

Violento despertar que dieran la vida
frías espátulas que causaron dolor
al tierno cuerpo de ingenuidad divina
desprendiéndolo del cobijo maternal que lo protegió.

Su rostro,
Un conjunto perfecto de imperfecciones
Iluminado con el esplendor de intensas ilusiones.

Sus ojos,
Fresco manantial de vida y flores
Envuelto en un mantel de amor y pasiones

Su ser,
Una obra maestra de inspiraciones,
una raza vigente de continentes
y robando corazones
una mirada tierna de ojos candentes.

De verde a turquesa va la alegría
de turquesa a gris viene el dolor
y el color va cambiando en armonía
capturando sentimiento e inspiración.

Ni la belleza, la inteligencia o la palabra perspicaz
guiaron su destino entre calles y caminos
distante con pluma errante la suerte estaba marcada
-la maldición de los ojos verdes la llamaba ¡

Burbujas de juventud, vida y deseo
de un alma vagabunda en busca de ilusiones
perdida en un mar brotante de pasiones.

Arrebato de amor y esperanza
resplandor de dicha y fantasía
el sentimiento sublime de ser madre
colmo su corazón con alegrías.


Buscando descanso y armonía
cruzo el camino de los años
pero en la cúspide de la vida
encontró soledad y desengaño.

Cansada de lágrimas y llantos
detrás de un manto de tristeza y agonía
su vista gastada se perdía
en un canto nostálgico sin melodía.

Los pétalos de rosa van cayendo
mientras los cristales del sol se van rompiendo
y la mirada entristecida no desea retornar a la vida.

Los pétalos de rosa van cayendo
de una mano temblorosa y vacía
y con la esperanza perdida
no quiere luchar por la vida.

Vivir sin ver no es vivir ¡
Vivir sin sentir es morir ¡
gritos de un corazón en silencio
que hecha sus lamentos al viento.

Aquellos ojos verdes de mirada radiante,
Aquellos ojos verdes de sonrisa sensual
que con su resplandor iluminaron mi vida
aquellos ojos verdes que no se encenderán más.

Aquellos ojos verdes que perdieron firmeza
y que ya no inspiran deseos de amar,
aquellos ojos verdes con lágrimas y llantos
aquellos ojos verdes que no veré jamás.



Dedicados a mi mamá, Noemí
Mayo 23, 2003